Avoidance is Gold?

Avoidance is Gold? Maybe I should just avoid everything. Stop being a busybody and really be a bochup person. Stop dwelling on the pasts and talking about it. Life goes on. Memories stay. Feelings are unknown if you avoid it... Maybe I would never know the true feelings...

There seem to be something stopping from the free flow of speech now. Guess I know why...I brought upon it myself. Is this healthy? I don't know...It seems so difficult for the both parties...